Since that time, I have found a few others who can answer way better than I can.
I came across the book from Clay Clarkson called "Heartfelt Discipline". Clay is a dedicated man of the Word and husband to Sally Clarkson who has written several books on motherhood.
I have also read Samuel Martin's book "They Rod and They Staff They Comfort Me"
and a few other bloggers along the way. :)
So here goes:
- I enjoy reading your blog and admire your parenting style. I will admit
to being somewhat confused on the spanking issue... I was spanked as a
child and don't feel damaged in any way as a result of it :) but neither
can I say that spanking makes a lot of sense to me (especially when
dealing with traumatized children). But how do you interpret Scripture
that speaks of "beating with the rod" Proverbs 23:13-14
, "the rod of correction" Proverbs 22:15
, etc.? I would appreciate hearing your thoughts on these verses.
Do not withhold ndiscipline from a child;
oif you strike him with a rod, he will not die.
14 If you strike him with the rod,
you will psave his soul from Sheol.
Well,
it is not true that if you strike him with a rod he will not die if
your name is Lydia Schatz, Hana Williams, Sean Paddock or any number of
other children who have been struck with rods. It is also not true that
you can beat a child and save his soul! The only saving of the soul
comes from the MERCY AND GRACE of the Lord Jesus Christ through HIS
sacrificial death on the cross for the remission of sin! So this verse
must have a different meaning than what is read at face value.
Samuel
Martin covers this VERY WELL in his book. The Word Sheol means grave.
(correct me Samuel if I am wrong here) It does NOT mean HELL as we
would think.
What
the verses are saying is DISCIPLINE (TEACH) your son right from wrong
and you will save him from his own foolishness and early death!
The other word "CHILD" in the original language is NOT a little CHILD! It is a YOUNG MAN between 16 and 26.
Proverbs was written to young men.
The other verse: Folly is bound up in the heart of a child,
but nthe rod of discipline drives it far from him.
Again,
NAAR is the original word. It is a YOUNG MAN.... though our children
can also be full of folly. Here, the ROD of Discipline is being used figuratively. Discipline IS the Rod. Correction IS the rod.
Discipline, to come along side, teach, instruct IS a rod!
I
will not argue that scripture has no place for corporal punishment. It
does. But I would truly ask that all these scriptures (the rod verses
in Proverbs) be applied with the WHOLE counsel of the word of God... not
just a few verses separated out.
If
these verses are to be used literally.... then my next question would
be, why are we not stoning still? Scripture certainly, CLEARLY states
it!
Eli,
refused to discipline His sons and they were punished directly by God.
He ended their lives, and Eli's line. God waited over 40 YEARS for Eli
to discipline his sons. He did nothing. He didn't tell them they were
wrong for offering profane fire before the Lord or any number of other
things they were doing. God spoke to him and told him he would judge
them and Eli did nothing still.
THIS
is an example of what scripture says "He who doesn't discipline his son
hates his son."Eli did not instruct his own sons. Note also how OLD
they were!
I would like to end with a link to Dulce De Leche's blog. She wrote an EXCELLENT POST called "A good old fashioned stoning!"
1 comment:
Beautifully explained! Thank you so much for speaking the truth in love and all that you do for the least of these. <3 Thank you, too, for your kind words and sharing of my post.
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