Today, Good Friday, we didn't have school, we didn't have soccer, and we tried our best to stay home and reflect on what today means. We made Easter Eggs for Sunday, and listened to music reflecting on the death and Resurrection of our Lord.
And inbetween those moments, was a tender teaching moment.
You see, even though it is a time to reflect, we still needed to get our chores done, and prepare for the Holiday.
Miss Alli, has been getting over poison ivy all week. She is much better, but I went ahead and tried a different ointment to see if we could speed the process. (BTW-SEA SALT works AMAZINGLY WELL on any plant dermatitis)
It was time for her to do the dishes, and she wasn't budging. She told me she was "dizzy" from the smell of the ointment, which was quite mild.
She told me this as she stood in the kitchen balancing on one foot with her other leg bent under her like a stork....It is her favorite position to sort of "rest or stand" in . Oh how I wish I had a picture of her standing there on one foot claiming to be dizzy. :) I actually find that position quite comfortable too. LOL
I do not like it when a child makes excuses. I simply said, "I'm sorry, but it is time for dishes so we can get on with the day."
She stood there. I could see she was digging in. Oh how I didn't want this.
I cheerfully said,"when you are finished with the dishes, we are going to decorate eggs!"
She said, "I'm not really interested!"
Hmmm. I found her VERY interested last year.
So I began the egg dye preparation. And cheerfully, we put on music and some of the girls came in to start dying the eggs, without Miss Alli.
I told her cheerfully, "If you change your mind, and get the dishes done, you can join in!"
And I let it go.
I threw up some prayers for her and for me, because inside I really wanted to FORCE things.
Instead, I felt the Lord wanting me to wait. "Wait, be patient!"
She turned around and began to do the dishes. She finished them and then came over and said, "Mama, I know I really don't deserve to do the Easter Eggs, but I would really like to!"
I gave her a hug and said, " We'll, let's get some eggs dyed!" "Here is your design wax, and here are the colors."
She had little tears and she asked, "Mama, Why did I do that? Why Am I so STUBBORN!"
You see, Miss Alli doesn't like it when she disobeys. She really doesn't. But sometimes, her old nature pops out; sometimes mine does too.
I was so encouraged to hear her ask such a contemplative, revealing, question about herself.
I said, "For the very reason we are Celebrating Good Friday, and Easter Sunday. We are hopelessly lost in Sin. We rebel. We don't do what we know to be the right thing to do! And even, when we are believer's we can fall back into sin. We will not achieve perfection until we are in Heaven. Until then, we are ALL flawed; me too. "
"God doesn't give us what we deserve. He gives us mercy and grace. And just think..... Christ bore ALL of our sin on that cross so very long ago. He payed the price."
I think that was a very real lesson for our sweetie today. I love it when the Gospel comes alive in those teaching moments.
She sincerely apologized, and the rest of our day has been one of celebration. She has had plenty of opportunity to obey things I have asked of her, and she has done it joyfully. :)
God is so patient with us.
She posed for a picture: )
“I pray because I can't help myself. I pray because I'm helpless. I pray because the need flows out of me all the time- waking and sleeping. It doesn't change God- it changes me.”
― C. S. Lewis
― C. S. Lewis
I believe in the sun even when it's not shining. I believe in love even when I don't feel it. And I believe in God even when He is silent. (quote found on the wall of a concentration camp)